Eric - I like this introspection you are having. And I think you are taking the correct hands-off non-controlling approach now with what your W may be doing. She knows from the first EA of your disapproval of such matters. She probably realizes you dont condone it and are not a push over wuss. Keep on you path, and as time goes on, the panic will wear off (but your appetite may return).
Cat - why are you still married to a habitual cheater?
