You need to do this by giving him space. Even if he moves back in the house you need to keep your distance. It can be done. You can survive a MLC with him in the house. You need to mirror his actions. Do not SMOTHER him. This will lead to certain D talk.
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I asked him how this was going to work..staying and living in the same house? Don't get me wrong, but I had been praying to God to give me strenthg and clarity. I wanted my H home, but not still separated. In addition, how can he live here if he is angry with me. He goes from on the surface being nice and then reacting badly to questions accusing me of being the reason for everything bad. He then yelled, and said he grows tired of questions and that need to be "normal".
You were talking R talk and this led to him yelling at you. Do you see that?
Some of what he is saying is projection but other things he is saying are true. Keep your distance, make yourself more attractive so that he is chasing you. This is why we tell you to detach and GAL.
