I am so sorry to hear about your dad. I went through similar things with my dad in 2001 and then again over the summer with mom.
I am praying for you, M.... take good care of your kid's mom. They need her!
Love, Sandy
M:47 M:18 D16, S19 1st S 1/08-5/08 Reconciled/May 7, 2008 Left again Nov 9, 2009 I Filed: Nov 17, 2009 Final: April 14, 2010 EX walked away from kids too