Back here, for the second time... #69

[sandycay]

I'll put my two cents here on the C. My thing is she is the only one out of us here that has actually met H and heard what he has had to say.

She is basing her direction on where the man has been for 3 years. He has been stuck in limbo.

Also, how long has he been depressed? Because evidently it seems since before August which is when K found out. So, he could ML to OW but not K while severly depressed.

Sorry, I don't buy it.

M~ along time ago you posted to me when I was in piecing something, when I was seeing "not so good" signs from my H. You said "I dont know what to say. I may be projecting here, I maybe waaaaay off but, he sounds like he is in the middle. In the middle of something. I cant really put my finger on it but his back and forth isnt...right."

So, I say to you ... Something isn't right, sometimes you have to stop excusing the behavior and accept the behavior for what is. He's not doing the work.


OK that said ~ on the Bday situation... I had to deal with H traveling on important dates too. It sucks but work does interefere with our expectations. Plan it for a different day. Did you want him to take off? Tell him... he can't read your mind. My H could never take off for silly reasons like that though. LOL