Also, if I confront now, I would be handing her back the power to control my emotions and right now that is not a good thing for me or my kids. You see, I have come to realize that if she is going to want to be with me, that is a choice that she will make based on the man that I am becoming not based on her r with the OM or her other needs i.e. for the kids, finances, etc. You see I know now that I want her to want me for ME. Yes, it hurts to think that I may loose her but I would rather be truly loved that have someone living with me going thru the motions.
