SA, Just curious about your H's BF that he works with, is that right? Were you guy's friends with this couple? If your H's BF did not tell him about his father passing, that would seem odd unless he distancing himself from your H, or the other way around.
Our best friends feel just as cheated on as I do as we used to do things with them every weekend. They have seen my W 3 times in 6 months. Not that you are going to tell your H this but I think the MLCer cuts out of their lives anyone that might possibly tell them that what they doing is wrong. My W blames our friends for not contacting her, I just say nothing.
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