Another WAW, Advise Please

[cannon]

I'd rather have you going all hardcore telling her to get out, than have you sneaking around behind her back, cutting off her internet and making it look like a computer problem, and not being man enough to just walk up to her and tell her that it's going to stop.

i have told her to leave and she is looking at apartments etc. legally she is on the mortgage and i'm working on removing her, to which i will need her signatures.

i told her no more contact, instead she built walls of privacy, and lied and continues to lie. so i turned off the internet. like a drug addict, i'm not supplying the drug.

Oh, and as for the flirting girl deal... it always pisses me off when someone gets on here and bitches about a cheating spouse, then in the next breath starts talking about some hotty that they'd like to pursue.

i said i enjoyed the attention and had missed that in my life. someday i will go on a date, that was just the another step in moving on, realizing that other women find me attractive and want to spend time with me. will i have a date in the next week or month, probably not. but if i do, i will tell my W before it happens.

yesterday she said she is moving out for several reasons. and i just smiled. i then said, ok, when? she said i'm not communicating with OM anymore and i said i would like to believe you and i choose to, but when i think logically about it, you lied and lied, and now you have built up all of these walls of privacy so you can hide and feel like you can do whatever you like. She said i really need help, go get some help. it makes her feel better to think that she is leaving a man that needs help.