Agree completely, it is sad. The first few hurt and you want to try and stop it...the next few you care less and work on yourself. By the last one for me...I wasn't angry about the affair so much as angry that it was affecting my life (losing certain opportunities to GAL because I had to watch kids, etc).
What I do pick from Cat's situation though...is the fruitlessness of exposing affairs in the MLC environment. It will go on.....and I think contrary to what the hard line tactic people say...a majority of the time it will just be pushed farther underground or hasten the pace to divorce.
