I agree on letting it destroy me. And I agree that it's my own fault.
As for the contact- when it became known to me of the lies, I figured it would be best to set the boundary and remove the dogs/ W from my life. I know that there will be two other interactions at least- the move and D .
I'm not sure what I'll do about the move. This weekend I can pack her things and get them into the garage. Then decide whether or not to be there when it's time for her to pick them up.
As much as I would like for things to work out, W is not the person I know and love, and that's something I can now accept- now more push/pull...silence then "kindness"...silence then false promises...and lies lies lies.
