Reactions. Thats all they are. Who ever calls you a stalker is not worth the time of day ( Unless its your bat scht crazy wife then its just words ) So all that talk about the dogs... Done. Over a reaction. Too bad.
How about you start thinking of Divorce for a change.
Remember she left you. Stop doing what your doing. Why did you contact your wife ? Why? Your not even capable of hearing intel from friends on your wife. So cut that out.
This is destroying you because you let it destroy you.
Stand strong on the exposure. It is the right thing to do.
Let her go.
Let her fall.
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