Thankyou for your words g450. Unfortunatly, I have been doing DB for sometime now but didn't really start it the right way until my H left. I did all the wrong things in the beginning and was a doormat...big time.

I am sorry you are going through this too! I am so thankful to have this sight and for all of the people on here!

M48 H53
M16 T18
S16 D13
SS30
H drops bomb PA/8-30-09
H leaves 12-30-09
D filed by H 2-10
H asks to come home 4-11
Piecing