Suzy - Were we married to the same guy?? Chuck goes on about how little he has and how much he has given. At my highest level of CS ever he gave me $321 per month. Ashley was a world class baton twirler - that didn't even cover her baton expenses yet our agreement stated he needed to share her baton costs.

Our agreement covers her in 4 years of post secondary education but getting the $ out of him is a struggle. Then he becomes very self righteous about it and wants more. Last week he gave Ash his 1/3 of this quarter's tuition - hence his "acting out" and needing more.

Grrrr....

This morning I'm up very early (for me) to begin a long day of work at a baton twirling event. My sister posts on FB after I had a vague rant about this and preaches to me. She does not have an ex. Her husband and children are models. Stepford even. Every single thing they do revolves around their church. The D21 (same age as mine) has never even gone on a date! Yet she drones on and on to me on FB and preaches. Like she has a clue.

Sorry to vent that here - some people might take it the wrong way. I am a Christian and try to live my life right but hate to be criticized by people with a holier than thou attitude who have not walked a mile in my shoes. She does this to my children on FB too. In fact - at my Christmas party - no one wants to go near them for fear of being preached to constantly.

Anyway - shouldn't have put that here but it ticked me off this morning.

Barb