Wow when I read your first post I felt down for you and then the last post well Im bananaring round the lounge!

What a break through, feel you dropped the rope on believing your marriage could turn around, and accepted that it might not be what you wanted and the neediness legged it out the window and H felt that!

Its hard to admit we are scary but I reckon Im in the same boat as you! When mad, scared or needy Im down right demonic lol, well not any more. Believe me its killing me to stay calm with the danger of my house being taken out from under my feet hanging over my head, but Ive have now proved to myself it can be done.

Some big baby steps there today hun, just keep your expectations low for the time being, H has jumped right out of his comfort zone and by tomorrow will have scared himself sh*tless and back off. I am so pleased for you, I could feel your despair that H wasnt ever gonna bring anything useful to the table and Im so pleased he finally stumped up! (())))

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W 47
H 47
M 24
T 30

Once lost but now found and happily married again!