No longer "stuck808". Now my name is Bond. "MrBond

[MrBond]

Thanks 25yearsmlc. Yep I'm still learning.

"mind reading and that can be due to conflict avoidance, fear of some sort, or even laziness."

There was definitely mind reading on my part. Conflict avoidance on my W's. Probably fear on both our sides. I doubt laziness because I've tried to talk to her and she would just say "just drop it" before I could find out the root of the problem.

I just hope that even now she slowly opens up. It just gets a little draining after 2 years. But I gave up another wonderful woman for her, so I'm sticking by my decision to stick for her for now.