I look at his actions now and he is a great hubby in pretty much all regards. He has changed greatly. I don't have to worry about him calling me dumbass or looking at me with annoyance or actiing like he can't stand me. I wish I could communicate better with him... but...
But is he sincere? I mean he is first and foremost a father- the kids are his life. He would not want a D b/c he would want to see them everyday. Is this his motive? He originally told me "I am done, I will stay in the house as long as I can till you kick me out with a D" "I want to be with my kids regardless of my feelings for you"
I am all about my kids too. That is why I kept trying to get back together with him. I did not want the kids to live with a D. If there was no kids- I would have split a long time ago. NO one wants to be with someone that hates them.
So I just am so uneasy here....
Motives, intentions, sincerity. I think he is being genuine but then some days I get really worried about it all.
Last edited by june72; 02/19/1007:03 AM.
M38, H37 S3, S7 Together 15 yrs Married 8 yrs Bomb July 2008 Inhouse separation "I hate you" "We are over" (too many times to count) Reconciled Sept 2009 (still worth it)
