Valentine's Day was not a highlight of our time together, because he "forgot" it was Valentine's Day. I told him I didn't need a card, just effort, and he would have to be deaf, dumb and blind to have forgotten. It is on tv, in the paper, on the radio, and in every store you walk into.
He did take me to dinner, replaced my hard drive for me in my computer, does things with me every weekend, etc. Well, anyhow, I just focus on patience.
You are right KJ. He didn't "forget" it was Valentines Day. He isn't dear, dumb and blind. He is telling you that he doesn't feel that way about you.
He has been living in your house for 2 months now and still . . . . just friends. Is he just using you until wood burning season is over?
And you tell him, "I didn't need a card, just effort"? WTF? How much effort does it take to get a card?
Focusing on "patience" is getting you a truckload of sexual frustration and a 'husband' who sees you as mommy and/or a friend.
