Trying to move on

[ClingingToHope]

Another point is that I originally brought up collaborative divorce and kind of a do-it-yourself divorce. The problem though was my heart wasn't in it. I'd have to agree this is the right thing to do and sit down together and work it out.

I don't think this is the right thing to do. And I have a feeling W has a lot of work lawyers giving her advice. She works at a place that is 90 percent female and it seems like 75 percent of her co-workers are on their second and third marriages.

It's not a very guy friendly place. In the past that worked for me. She'd go out with her co-workers a couple of times a year and then come home and be all over me. I'd ask her why and she said she spent the whole night listening about how this guy cheated, that guy ended up in jail, this other guy blew all their money, another never helped around the house.

It made her appreciate me more.