I have a feeling we are going to end up in mediation. I asked my attorney what happens if we can't agree, he said then we go to mediation.

Well, I'm never going to agree to her having sole custody. That's a deal breaker for me.

When I moved out, first I moved into a friend's house and couldn't take the girls. Then I moved in to this apartment. I was a fool and was being the nice guy, feeling eventually she'd come to her senses, and didn't see an attorney.

I should have insisted for 50/50 right away. Now I may have to fight a bit.

I wish I shared your optimism. Only a miracle will save this M. I'm trying to prepare myself for the choppy waters ahead.


Me: 47, Ds 17-13, D final 6-11
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