Ok-questions

1. I want to call H very badly but am thinking that I should do n/c until he calls Sunday a.m.?

2. I want to talk to him before he talks to the kids as I want him to tell me what he is going to say to the kids. I also want to ask him why the #!&@!!! he couldn't have at least "hinted" that he was done with our marraige. Also, I would like to by some time and drag this out as long as I can. What is his big hurry? It is not like I have been pressuring him, he is living the life he apparenlty wants to live. Financially, he is actually better off right now. Wondering if he is getting pressure from OW?

3.Not sure how to act when I see him....


M48 H53
M16 T18
S16 D13
SS30
H drops bomb PA/8-30-09
H leaves 12-30-09
D filed by H 2-10
H asks to come home 4-11
Piecing