Thanks GH (Mark and married also) for you comments. At this point (today at least smile ) I'm not considering going down this route. This morning when I dropped off the youngest and was getting ready to get my oldest on the school bus, W comes downstairs and is talking to OM on phone. Nothing major, but just another reason why I'm not interested.

Later today she calls me at work about wanting to make dinner tomorrow night (for me, the kids and her parents), then broke down saying she was sorry and still loved me. I remained calm, cool, etc and basically refused to discuss our R (as we don't have one anymore in my mind...other than co-parenting). I think she is starting to realize what a mess she has made for herself and our girls. Too bad it took her getting pregnant to realize it.