Hey Gardener, I know how you feel with the financial picture. Somehow, someday, this will get better..
I stopped by your thread to ask you a question though, as I am approaching meeting with L and STBXW and L, and I am getting anxious about what to expect.
It's basically about trying to get agreement on financial divorce. I want to stay strong for d9 and myself.
Looking back now a bit, how did you manage that?
What should I focus on during this, to keep my emotions in check, etc?
Just looking for some passing thoughts from people that are ahead of me..
M: 41 STBXW: 41 D: 9 Bomb: 4/26/09
On board the D train now..
"Suffering is when we try to change what we cannot."
