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[awest1217]

Talk to H about the ADHD and he said no he doesn't think he has it. So that is a no go. I went about it in a round about way so that he didn't think I was being pushy, but he still said no so oh well. I don't think I will ever get him to get therapy.

On the bills. He texts me tonight about how he can't find them. He said he thought he laid them aside when he packed some stuff and now can't find them. GREAT! His car insurance is in there and that will affect me because we are on the insurance together. AH! I was calm and reassured him that everything would be ok. Then when I am at church he sends me a text, "no luck yet - in case you cared. im giving up for a while and eating." S has not been listening and had a bad day at school as well so I had enough. I let H know I did not appreciate him saying in case I cared because I do care a lot and if he would let me, I would drop everything and go over to the house and help him look, but he won't let me in. I said I would help, but you won't let me. I do care, I care a lot. Or something like that. He then said he was sorry and didn't mean to come off rude. I said it was ok and that I would take care of hte car insurance tomorrow. He said no that he would take care of it and said sorry for being a jerk. I contacted a mutual friend from church who is an agent with the same insurance company we have and asked him what to do. He said H just needs to call and they will do the payment over the phone. I said ok and let H know (without telling who I asked because he would be so embarrassed). He hasn't text me anything back, but he knows I am upset (between H and S I am not going to sleep anytime soon and I need to) so he probably shut off his phone. Oh well...3 more weeks.