The last time I tried to initiate was the last night he spent in our bed..........moved to the couch----talk about a kick for someone that was already pretty low on herself!
Ouch!
Yeah----and it still took me some time to realize that OW was in the picture.........
Me 45 M 25 yrs; T 31 yrs;bomb 8/15/06; moves out 7/18/08 D 18, D 14, S 12