Remember what you did when you saw the first flicker of positive response from her. You see, the first time so many men actually apply a tiny bit of toughness and man-up to their WAW...and see her "respond"....then he's scared to death to proceed--afaid he'll go too far! Don't you realize that "if" you actually have her looking on the computer for local MC's, then you've done something right? You need to continue.....don't stop! I keep telling you that she wants a strong man who she can respect. She doesn't want anyone she can use as a doormat.
Let me add this, don't ever fail to give enough credit to what a woman can think to do or "play" her H. I don't want to sound negative or dash your hopes, but I want you to be wise and know that she will test you! If you cave at the first little test, she will be done. Don't you know she knows you? Don't you think I knew my H backed up the computer history for months after he confronted me about my EA? Don't you think that we women know what to do to give our H's "hope" when that's all he's been living to see? Like I said....be wise.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
