I am really looking for some guidance from you or advice as I really am torn and wondering if this is all normal these moods etc..
Can't answer for anyone else, but I'm in the middle of wild mood swings. Normal? Couldn't say. I think that it must not be that uncommon if we are both riding the same waves.
M:40 W:40 2 teenagers ILYBNILWY: 09 January 2010 soon to be walking away my situation
Sandi, I guess thats the husband coming out in me to "fix" the problems.. When I know I cannot.. She is still at work, spoke to her at 5 pm, now 8:06 and havent heard a peep from her. I am always concerned, but I know that I shouldnt call her. Although, it would be nice if she called to re-assure me that she is really at work and that she is on her way ro something.. I must give her space, I know.. its tough.
M 43 W 43 S15 S 12 D 10 ILYBNILWY ( Dec 2009) Sleeping separate rooms April 8 2010. Sep as of 07/14/2010 W moving out 07/31/2010 No OM confirmed ( yet)
Crushed, Thats for your thoughts. I hoep for both our sakes the train keeps going whether they are with us or without. I have 3 kids, so it is very important to really focus on them right now..
P>S.. I havent done laundry ever!!.. my 10D just showed me... lol.. I guess another 180!!
M 43 W 43 S15 S 12 D 10 ILYBNILWY ( Dec 2009) Sleeping separate rooms April 8 2010. Sep as of 07/14/2010 W moving out 07/31/2010 No OM confirmed ( yet)
Hey Cutter, I hope I am not offending you as that is not my intent. I hoep that wasnt directed at me.. Sandi has been awesome..as have others including yourself.
I certainly would not want to be an ahole to my wife.. Its not in my nature to be like that.. I am really looking for some guidance from you or advice as I really am torn and wondering if this is all normal these moods etc..
No offending from anyone. Just wanted to clarify. Everyone here posts with the best intent. Always believe that.
Flowers always make people better, happier, and more helpful; they are sunshine, food and medicine for the soul. unconditional love is awesome!
Laundry. From what I gather. I was in the same boat as you so take it with a grain of salt.
1. read labels 2. whites go warm/cold 3. colours go cold/cold 4. darks go cold/cold 5. flannel stuff keep separate 6. good stuff laundered at dry cleaners ( good shirts, pants etc... ) 7. Wash bed sheets warm/cold once a week
thats it....
If I am wrong. Some one will correct me and you
Flowers always make people better, happier, and more helpful; they are sunshine, food and medicine for the soul. unconditional love is awesome!
LOL!!!.... hilarious.. I needed that.. We are guys, we dont read labels.. Just do it!... isnt that what they say!!!!!!
M 43 W 43 S15 S 12 D 10 ILYBNILWY ( Dec 2009) Sleeping separate rooms April 8 2010. Sep as of 07/14/2010 W moving out 07/31/2010 No OM confirmed ( yet)
M 43 W 43 S15 S 12 D 10 ILYBNILWY ( Dec 2009) Sleeping separate rooms April 8 2010. Sep as of 07/14/2010 W moving out 07/31/2010 No OM confirmed ( yet)
When doing laundry for the family got out of control (cloth diapering, etc.), I developed a new laundry strategy: Darwinian laundry. It's survival of the fittest in my house! If it can't be washed on warm and dried on hot, it's out. The only exception is wool, which I pamper a bit more. Needless to say I don't have any white in my wardrobe, and my clothing purchases are based on launder-ability.
me: 42 | STBXH: 41 | T: 18 | M: 10 | separation: Jan 3, 2010 | they deserve better: S7 & D4 current thread: http://tinyurl.com/3y8sxcp .: first breathe, then heal, then start LIVING :.
When doing laundry for the family got out of control (cloth diapering, etc.), I developed a new laundry strategy: Darwinian laundry. It's survival of the fittest in my house! If it can't be washed on warm and dried on hot, it's out. The only exception is wool, which I pamper a bit more. Needless to say I don't have any white in my wardrobe, and my clothing purchases are based on launder-ability.
Smart! ^
I've often said we should do the same with DISHES. SO many things in our house are hand-wash, drip-dry, etc. Waste of time and energy!!
