Originally Posted By: cesco
I know she is hurting.... as am I.
She is up and down like a roller coaster.
Oh god, help us please!!!


I think this is what men (in general) are programmed to do. Sorry for the sexism, but I'm coming to realize how deeply we're conditioned by society to soothe the pains and ease the burdens of our women.

It is part of the old structure of the old system which doesn't exist any longer. Modernity provides females with the ability to ease their own pains and shoulder their own loads. We need to adapt to this new structure. Not doing so makes us look like chumps (and who loves a chump?) and sets us up to be easy marks for the unscrupulous.

Let your wife ride that roller-coaster. Isn't it she who wants out, texts other dudes, etc.? If it is as you say, then she can pull the lever and leave the ride whenever she likes.

Just my opinion.

There is no god, by the way. There's only us. Praying is a waste of time. Stick to your plan and know that all the help you need comes from within.

Peace,

Crushed
(born a Mormon, practicing atheist)


M:40
W:40
2 teenagers
ILYBNILWY: 09 January 2010
soon to be walking away
my situation