You sound a lot more upbeat tonight. I wrote a long reply to you last night and lost it!!! So, I am back today to check in on you.
Re the moving out: You are setting your timetable. If you can't move by April, you can't. Simple.
I am glad that you will evaluate your L going forward. You really need to be convinced that she is looking out for your best interests and hearing you. So, if you need to see another L, do so.
Re the crying in the car and the emotions.. all perfectly understandable. You are HUMAN, right? I understand the frustration you must feel at the thought of coming out of the sale of the house with barely enough to cover your cc debt. But, even if it comes to that remember that YOU are not finished and YOU will thrive. Stories abound about people who started from rock bottom and are at the very top right now. You are not at rock bottom and as bad as things feel there is always someone who is truly much worse than you /we are. LFA,I know you will get wherever you need to be.
