"She said that the court will not award support to a man (or even a woman) when they have a restraining order against them from the supporter."
So for the sake of argument, what if you don't move back home and she makes something up to hit you with a RO so she doesn't have to pay you spousal support. What then?
You got your validation from the L to not move in. So don't. You've got two choices now. Either stay in limbo and continue to let her pull your strings or hit her with the D first and take everything you can now before she has time to regroup and stop you.
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.