"She said that the court will not award support to a man (or even a woman) when they have a restraining order against them from the supporter."

So for the sake of argument, what if you don't move back home and she makes something up to hit you with a RO so she doesn't have to pay you spousal support. What then?

You got your validation from the L to not move in. So don't. You've got two choices now. Either stay in limbo and continue to let her pull your strings or hit her with the D first and take everything you can now before she has time to regroup and stop you.


M-43 W-40
2D - 9 and 5

Emotion, yet peace.
Ignorance, yet knowledge.
Passion, yet serenity.
Chaos, yet harmony.
Death, yet a new life.

RECONCILED AND WISER