Do you have more than one child with the soon to be ex? How old are they?
I chose poorly too. I remember thinking that no one had ever really loved my sweetheart, and that if I loved that girl enough I could reverse all the heartache she'd experienced since birth.
It doesn't really work that way; but I have faith that I'll get to a space where I don't regret trying.
I hope you do too.
Peace...
M:40 W:40 2 teenagers ILYBNILWY: 09 January 2010 soon to be walking away my situation