Destiny, he may feel he has no desire BECAUSE HE IS WITH OW! I know it's hard but don't believe it.
Now...would you rather be legally separated than divorced? If so, you could suggest that.??? Just listen and repeat stuff he says and because he's going back and forth means he is not 100% sure this is what he wants (to divorce).
And is he going to try to stay at the house because he's running out of money for a hotel? Puleeze...his choice to leave, his choice to waste money.I can assure you that if you let him move bak it will be very very painful to see him communicate with OW while rejecting you.
me,34 exH,34 S,16 months S:3/31/09-left for OW started DBing 10/09 d final: sometime 10/10 current: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1 met in 2004