My C's idea. I think maybe he wants H to realize that he can't have his cake and eat it too...i.e. have a "trial" separation and leave the door open [b]while "dating" and talking about D.[/b]
Ok, well, why does your C think he has that sort of power or control over what your H thinks or realizes? Your C might *want* to make/help your H realize "what is what" but until your H is ready nobody, not even a C, will expedite that process.
In fact, even a small push by your C could really set back your DB efforts a great deal (IMO).
