op,
we were in walmart today and bought that book...how ironic! i have heard so much good about it! what is even weirder is that it was jammed into the magazine racks...where it didnt even belong...h bought it for me, im the avid reader. maybe he will read it in the future

Cat,
i COULD NOT agree with you more!about ALL that you have mentioned!

we want things to be new...and much improved! it could never happen overnight! I agreed with Jack too...i have a reaction issue that i still need to do a lot more work on...h and i hit on that a bit today. i felt much better after we atleast got that on the table...from BOTH points of view.

we have agreed he is going to spend even more time here with us, and we are going to move VERY patiently and slowly!

we both have quite a bit of work to do...just very happy that we agree that we are on the same team...we now need to learn the skills and put into motion pf playing the "game" together...

we dont want to be in a spot again because of unneeded bs and childish actions and reactions...


me 39
h 38
kids 9 and 6
h left 8/9/09
loving and devoted wife and mother
still going...10 months later...




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