maybe it's a way to "convince himself" that he wants this...he could be having 2nd thoughts and it could be his way of putting up a block to his own feelings of rejection from you by lashing out. You know "reject her before she rejects me"

Because maybe now that you are moving on, not kissing his butt, he is missing you!

me,34
exH,34
S,16 months
S:3/31/09-left for OW
started DBing 10/09
d final: sometime 10/10
current:
http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1
met in 2004