Steve, yes, she is a D lawyer, those were the only kind I talked to. Guess her comment is kind of unusual for a D L. Don't they usually try to get the most $$ for their clients? Well true the difference for me was not great, ie. 60/40 as opposed to 50/50. But it really rubbed the wrong way. I have not felt that way previously about her, that's why I said maybe it was me. I'll monitor this going fwd.
RW, Hugs to you! Thanks for your kind words. How are you doing? I need to stop by your thread. I hope you are continuing to piece. Yeah, times like that I feel really alone. Thanks for helping me remember I'm not!
Aver, Thanks for your support. And gentle smack up the head! Yeah, my perspective gets messed up sometimes. I dont' know, it doesn't seem like I'm asking for a lot. I haven't encountered any signs before of my L not advocating. I'll see how it goes. I don't really want to start over w another L, but if she's not going to bat for me, I guess I have no choice.
So, today I get an email from H in response to my email saying, it's best to let the Ls handle it (he wanted to talk). Here's what it said:
"I guess if that's what you want to do that's fine. I need to move out of where I am by the beginning or middle of April. Do you still not want the house? If not, any idea when you might be moving out? If you don't think you'll be out by then I might have to move into the apartment."
Um, interesting! He has to move out by April?? What happened? OK, I'm kind of speechless by this. Once again, I have to adjust my life b/c of his choices? I don't even know how to respond to this. Guess I'll let it sink in. Meanwhile, as always I welcome your wisdom, friends.
Thanks again for taking time to check in. I'll try to stop by your threads shortly. Have a good evening! (((())))))
