!Help! Need Advice and encouragement!

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I have been taking them to play softball and some things. Also, we talk a lot and watch movies. I feel pretty pathetic, myself lately.
I did look up an old girlfriend, however. We were together for about 7 years a bit prior to my getting married. I had broken all contact with her to please the wife, etc. The ex-girlfriend has cancer that has metastasized and she's on chemo. It doesn't sound good for her. I am trying to be a friend to her. We were quite close at one time. She's only 41. I have only spoken to her on the phone, so far. Her condition really makes me sad, also.