Mindful - I guess I wasn't quick enough to keep my H at home....he moved out 7/08......and he has bee consistently telling me we need to D since 2/08.........and I am just NOW getting what this is all about and what I should have been doing then----but am doing now (for ME). You are so LUCKY that he's still at home and you are able to show him that you are getting it! I'm sure you don't feel lucky most of the time.....but................yes----KUDOS!!
(The last time I tried to initiate was the last night he spent in our bed..........moved to the couch----talk about a kick for someone that was already pretty low on herself!)
Me 45 M 25 yrs; T 31 yrs;bomb 8/15/06; moves out 7/18/08 D 18, D 14, S 12
