Good Point. Guess whose going to ask, or request a different venue from time to time!
Good Lord! No alcohol! You'll probably feel pretty refreshed!
BTW, my S10 calls our dog Coach now. It's not the dogs name, but for some reason he is now "Coach". Always makes me think you you! LoL Don't worry, he's a cute doggie!
Me-46, D-21, S15, S13
After many years w/my head in the sand... I FILED Divorced 6/2011
The average woman would rather have beauty than brains, because the average man can see better than he can think.
THANK YOU (it means somethin' coming from someone who knows Rockin'!!!)
I like your idea for Lent. I should give myself a new pair of shoes every week of Lent. Yep, that's it! Actually, I have three ideas... I'll publish once I can commit! I know I should know, considering we've already been ash'd!
Good Luck!!! I highly recommend quiet time (in the tanning booth works!), really good foods, and fresh air!
Me-46, D-21, S15, S13
After many years w/my head in the sand... I FILED Divorced 6/2011
The average woman would rather have beauty than brains, because the average man can see better than he can think.
Mindful - I guess I wasn't quick enough to keep my H at home....he moved out 7/08......and he has bee consistently telling me we need to D since 2/08.........and I am just NOW getting what this is all about and what I should have been doing then----but am doing now (for ME). You are so LUCKY that he's still at home and you are able to show him that you are getting it! I'm sure you don't feel lucky most of the time.....but................yes----KUDOS!!
(The last time I tried to initiate was the last night he spent in our bed..........moved to the couch----talk about a kick for someone that was already pretty low on herself!)
Me 45 M 25 yrs; T 31 yrs;bomb 8/15/06; moves out 7/18/08 D 18, D 14, S 12
I'm getting better. Still not naked, but better! LoL
ya mean you shower clothed
kidding aside (for a sec anyway) I guess you continue to be excessively frustrated by the lack of physical intimacy ..aka nakedness. Take it from me even when that is going on it is but one element and nothing more. A rather nice and pleasing element sure but only one element of many that it takes to make a productive R. And because of all the other elements that don't work with us we are failing or have failed miserably.
Make the most of the fact that you have your H with you at home. It aint so with me. Nothing but a booty call is me. I will be shutting that down or maybe it already has shut down with no input from me. Me and the dog. Quasi-daughter long gone and covenant W ..smae thing in many ways.
The last time I tried to initiate was the last night he spent in our bed..........moved to the couch----talk about a kick for someone that was already pretty low on herself!
Ouch!
M44 H41 M20 T23 3 older teens Bomb Nov 09 "i'm not happy" EA Nov 09 w/coworker Another PA in Mar 10 I Filed Apr 10 D final Dec 10
You sound really good today. That PMA seems to be getting back up there. Must be the RUNNING! GASP...who knew?
I am also trying to eat more live stuff but I have always loved fruits and veggies so it isn't that hard. I need to cut out soda because I know it is not good and did I hear ST say she hadn't had a soda in 10 years or something like that ? Wow!! I don't drink a lot of it but I do drink some. So I won't knock ya on the caffeine fix.
