Sorry, we're closed. Under new management.

[25yearsmlc]

I cant even begin to imagine what else she is making you go through. Frank, she wont have that much control over your life soon. Stay strong,((()))
K

((( sigh ))) what Kalni said....Let it be done. And Frank, as for doing "what you gotta do", well, that's what it's called...and you're right, in your career especially you cannot let libel stand. It can hurt you and there are people who will "Break the dinner plate" to hurt a former spouse even if it means they'd get less money for themselves or kids. I recall a client saying some bad things about her stbxh and when I mentioned he'd lose his license she said, "But he'll still have to pay me the same amount?" And I said I didn't see how b/c these allegations were deal breakers to licensing boards...she withdrew the allegations...I told her I could not represent her anymore so she said "Why? B/C I won't say he abused the kids?" And I said, "No, b/c you lied to me and were willing to commit perjury in court OR b/c you are now willing to let your kids be abused so you can make money and either way, I'm not okay with being your L..."

Heck no, I have No regrets there ...(And I bet her check would've bounced anyhow...) So NOT fun to do that stuff. FIB, it will end, I promise you that....

But be careful what you say about her...be very mindful of looking spiteful or vindictive and losing credibility now. Being calm and not fighting tit for tat (whatever the hell that phrase actually means...) b/c it will help you look more mature and credible. You must establish and maintain credibility at this point. It's crucial. Credibility will matter more and more with time, not less. How's your L feeling about all this?And how's the business and professor job looking?

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