gman, Because of this -
Originally Posted By: gman
i do want to have these "evil" feelings gone, but she is being so nasty towards me and we are both very stubborn in our ways.
Originally Posted By: gman
will add the latest Gman suggestion to my list
Don't add it. Put it on the top of the list.
It is a short, quick read and I believe that right now you would get much from the simple power of The Second Agreement: "Don't Take Anything Personally"

Trust me.


Gardener

"My soul, be satisfied with flowers,
With fruit, with weeds even; but gather them
In the one garden you may call your own."
Cyrano deBergerac