!Help! Need Advice and encouragement!

[stark648]

Thanks ,
She and daughter are on good terms after the quiet talk,(following the argument). Unfortunately for our M, her world is getting better with the kids and she still gets to live her fantasy.
Her guilt bothers her some, but she was telling d "I'm right with God" --d is still trying to get her to at least come back to church, but she's making excuses. I think she's so "love-chemicalled" up and codependent on OM that I don't really know if there's hope for our marriage. I've been GAL as much as I can, but the girls need me to be home b/c they are having a hard time, also. I'm feeling really discouraged...