Still, I felt pretty hostile about doing nothing to help. I think it falls under NC, not pursuing, letting her have her consequences. But, I still doubt if it's the right direction. I suppose it might have been better to cheerfully offer her help, get her coffee, ect... I just don't know. Any thoughts?
I am proud of your resolve, Awoken. You did not act as her enabler! Consequences! Good going.
Gardener
"My soul, be satisfied with flowers, With fruit, with weeds even; but gather them In the one garden you may call your own." Cyrano deBergerac