This is so interesting. I'm inspired by how many men here care enough about their children to become the primary parent.
Most divorced guys I know are prowling the community college for teenagers, shacking up in a pathetic "bachelor pad" and stuffing every spare dollar into the garter of the girl at the strip joint to bother parenting.
It's been really good to see so many (you are one of many) men who care enough to be caregivers when their marriages are on the rocks. I ordinarily think I'm the only one.
You're doing a good job in my opinion. Your wife is miserable, but she did it to herself. Yes, the sex stuff hurts for a while, but after a while you start to think of it as a sort of messy handshake more than an invasion of your privacy. If she wants to debase herself, it's really nobody's problem but hers.
M:40 W:40 2 teenagers ILYBNILWY: 09 January 2010 soon to be walking away my situation
