Barb, I knew that X had only paid what he absolutely had to regarding your daughter, but aI wasn't sure if he paid support for Ryan because of his disabilities. I would just ignore his foot stomping. I know what you mean, they never get over their senceof entitlement do they. My X is just as bad when it comes ot the financial stuff. He and the new Mrs. X (formerly OW, or as she put it "his good Christian friend") are buying a new house, twice as big as the one they are in now, without selling the current house. So it is a 2nd house. But he hasn't paid anything for D19's college or D22's college. He did pay for 2 community college classes for D22, but it was her graduation gift. (They were classes she needed as pre-req's for a graduate program.) So i feel your pain on the selfish X issue!!!
"You can't stop the waves, but you can learn to surf." Jon Kabat-Zinn
