!Help! Need Advice and encouragement!

[MrBond]

You handled it fine. Her calling you back isn't pursuing. She's just playing the sympathy card. she's not going to even get to pursuing until she is remorseful.

You saw how she was uncomfortable at your D's accusations of her (because they are the truth) and she tried to turn it around and blame you. She made a little life for herself and it's falling down around her ears. Continue to not respond to her.

You're doing well.