Yeah what would happen if you called your H into the room and you were lying in bed in some kind of neglige or were just...naked?

Are you worried about feeling rejected? I understand that fear. But when was the last time you initiated?

me,34
exH,34
S,16 months
S:3/31/09-left for OW
started DBing 10/09
d final: sometime 10/10
current:
http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1
met in 2004