Good job staying cool and calm. About his last comment....there is nothing for you to say! Don't bring it up! Just carry on with the taxes and let him be the one to bring up talk about your marriage. Remember if he says things like " I am unhappy" or "I am confused." You just say things to validate like "I see that you are confused." " I understand that you are not happy." But let him lead and let yourself handle pauses!

Good luck!

me,34
exH,34
S,16 months
S:3/31/09-left for OW
started DBing 10/09
d final: sometime 10/10
current:
http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1
met in 2004