HB, lets just say that we have been doing this for 50 years and it doesn't matter what we say or do. I am sooooo detached from my mother that it doesn't really bother me. I feel bad for her, but she is sick and out of control, so I just have to stay out of the tornado. I have tried it all and right now all I can do is voice my displeasure with her and hope somewhere inside of her she realizes that she needs to help herself. I am NOT trying to fix her. I was just trying to get her to leave me alone. This usually works with her.
