That kind of reminds me when I was at the Saigon airport. All the tv's were on a vollyball match. The security guys were too busy watching it and we walked right through the metal detectors with no one looking.
My two cents on NGF is i I felt that way about my STBXH, it would mean I am not over him.
If FFG wasn't in the picture for me now, there is no way I would go back to STBXH. He hasn't been one of the worse D'bags on here by a long shot.
If FFG said that to me about his exwife... I would make sure he got the shot. For the kids ya know. To me it says your standing in the way of or my loving you is causing my kids to not have this perfect family life. A little delusional ...yes?
M:47 M:18 D16, S19 1st S 1/08-5/08 Reconciled/May 7, 2008 Left again Nov 9, 2009 I Filed: Nov 17, 2009 Final: April 14, 2010 EX walked away from kids too
Hey Sandy, thanks for the input. Honestly, we touched on the subject again and she downgraded it to maybe yes maybe no (she would give it another shot). Is she over him 100? Am I over XW 100%? Are any of us over our exes 100? Probably not....I can only speak for myself and say that XW and her family are not healthy for me....pure and simple. Although if D9 would act as Dennis does regarding the parents potentially getting back together, it would play with my mind a little. NGF sees her boy struggling in school and in general and he asks on a semi regular basis if they (NGF and her X) have a shot to get back together. So there you have it. I am doing my thing. Living my life. Enjoying our time together. NGF does surprise me with long range projections every so often........so....there are no guarantees in life.....K is right I have become cynical.
Hey Mike, I am kind of glad you are perplexed! You alwasy have the answers bro!
LOL...alright then...
If I had all the answers I'd be the richest man in the world and all the women would want me...
which would leave you and Kerry in a very bad place..and without dates..
she may have just said that to see what your response would be...one thing I have learned is that after DB'ing for so long you (and truly figuring out that you are ok either with or without someone)can sometimes come across as "not caring" one way or the other...
trying to figure some stuff out is wasted brain space brother..
I hear you mike...on the coming across as not caring....goes back to the LL thing i believe. However, I am who I am and at times I can be a little rough around the edges.
<<trying to figure some stuff out is wasted brain space brother..>> I do not have much to waste... ;-)
PS by the way, I meant you always have an opinion or an explanantion.
No, i am not worrying about it. It struck me as an odd thing to say. There are enough things to worry about in the world (like will Canada win Gold in Ice hockey at the Olympics or when does Tiger come back to the PGA tour) that I do not stay stuck on this stuff too much.
like will Canada win Gold in Ice hockey at the Olympics or when does Tiger come back to the PGA tour) that I do not stay stuck on this stuff too much.
Canada will score many gooooooaaalllllllllllssssss ...and Tiger will make his comeback at the Master's.. ..Elin will show up here (on this forum) soon after and it will be Our duty..(Kerry, myself, you and jeff) to comfort her through the D process...
...and Tiger will make his comeback at the Master's.. 
..Elin will show up here 
(on this forum) soon after and it will be Our duty..(Kerry, myself, you and jeff) to comfort her through the D process... 