Swingcats in Athens? WOW!!!!! I need a partner though. (I have taken classes for most of the latin dances, mambo is still my favourite...)
IC was...ok. I talked, she listened and then said :so, you come across as someone torn in two. One side of you wants this desperately to work out and the other feels your H is holding you back, "freezing" your life. I said she was almost right. She said "then, break it off, he wont be doing much more than what you are getting any time soon". THANKS doc!!! Much appreciated.
She said she heard regret and grief about my choice to reconcile last year. True. She said she hears I am so deeply hurt and disapointed that he obviously hasnt realised. I am not sure about that. I think he chooses not to see it so that he wont have to act on it.
She said "stop talking about your M, you came here for you! I told her my M is my problem right now. The rest of my life is ...fine.
Not very productive. She made me feel like all this effort is useless.. K
