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[gutwrenching]

I realized I never did post the V-day experience. I did decide to give W a card. It was a humorous one that didn't have any key words in there (love, wife, beautiful, blah, blah...nothing mushy). left on bed in cabin for W to find when she went to change for hot tub. In tub, she says "thanks for the card" and "I didn't get you anything"...I simply replied I didn't think you would. Not another word was said about it nor about it being valentine's day. W did take card home with her (I would have thrown it away personally) and it is still sitting on her night stand...